Being Human with Your Teams During Global Transformation
#BlackLivesMatterMovement, Covid-19, and Economic Downturn
I was inspired to write my thoughts after a friend shared this Instagram post, by Cassandra Corrado with me. After scrolling through, I felt compelled to share something similar for leaders who are working within teams and businesses impacted by the #BlackLivesMatter movement, Covid-19, and the economic downturn that has spanned across the globe.
A quick history lesson of the #BlackLivesMatter Movement
The movement for Black lives which began in 2014, following the death of Mike Brown in Ferguson, Missouri, has reached parts of Germany, France, Britain, Palestine and beyond. This time, recent protests have begun on the heels of the recent deaths of Amaud Arbrey, Breonna Taylor, George Floyd, Dominique Fells, and Tony McDade.
The movement is calling for the basic human rights and dignity, that is reserved for White people, to be afforded to all Black people. We are also seeing this happen at a time where those same communities, Black communities, have been disproportionately affected by Covid-19 among other economic stresses related to the impact of the global shutdowns.
The context of today
As you can imagine, communities are grieving, both Black, non-Black POCs, and White allies. Your teams might be feeling a range of emotions — sadness, grief, anger, disconnection, distraction, rage — all of these emotions are valid. As a leader, it is important to understand the issues, the context, and how to hold space for your teams as they navigate the social and cultural changes happening globally.
Leadership shows up in many forms throughout our careers, in this instance, I’m encouraging leaders to be human. Show empathy, compassion, vulnerability and remain open to learning, making mistakes, and growing with your team.
Leading a Conversation with your Team
If you plan to have a conversation with your team, be sure to set aside enough time for the topic, share the context or agenda before the start, and make it optional, but encourage participation.
Before you get started, set ground rules that allow everyone the opportunity to speak. Do not call on folks of marginalized groups to share their experiences and educate others unless they explicitly offer this information willingly.
Remember, it’s okay to not be okay and that showing vulnerability will not affect anyone’s role and be sure to share your thoughts and join the conversation. Likely, your team isn’t expecting you to know everything and have all the answers — and its okay to acknowledge that — but showing support and empathy can have a huge impact.
Some suggested prompts that you may consider:
What might be distracting you today?
Can you describe how the recents events have made you feel and why?
What issues, concerns, fears or worries do the events of the last few weeks raise for you?
What would you like to see happen next in our world, team or company?
What do you think we could do to help create change?
If you feel you need support with facilitation and holding a safe space, ask a trusted HR partner to join the discussion, or consider an external facilitator to support you.
What to do Next
Now that the team has expressed their feelings (or if you're observing these behaviors), here's what you can do to support your teams.
If your team is feeling distracted… Scrolling Social Media, Constantly Reading Texts or the News
Suggest a break for individuals who are particularly distracted, set a timer and avoid phones and computer for the duration
As a leader, be open to listening to what your team needs — encourage time off, encourage saying no low-priority meetings, set boundaries for turning off at the end of the day (especially if you are still working remotely)
If your team members are feeling alone… Unsupported, Not Connected with the Team
Encourage connection with mentors or other leaders they feel safe with
Support your team members by finding internal ERGs or external local/virtual organizations where they can connect with other like-minded people
Check in with any team member feeling especially disconnected at least once per day
If your team members are feeling numb… Disconnected, Not expressive as usual
Acknowledge that holding back feelings or not knowing how to feel is ok and you are available to lend an ear when necessary
Encourage self-care and mindfulness practices — music, journaling, reading, meditation, yoga, etc.
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If your team members are feeling stressed… Jittery, Out of Breath, Sweaty
Contact your HR partners and encourage team members to utilize any free mental health services your company offers
Encourage time off. When taking time off, encourage team members to completely log off of email, Slack, WhatsApp, Teams, etc.
In a pinch, try relaxation techniques that offer immediate relief — drink a cold glass of water, do breathing exercises together, turn on slow tempo music (in the office or at home)
As a leader, set reasonable delivery expectations and offload low-priority tasks/projects that can wait
If your team members are feeling stuck…Indecisive, Overwhelmed, Frozen
Suggest a 10–15 minutes of movement (walking, stretching, light exercise) to get the heart rate up to boost creativity. For those with limited mobility, ask how you can support them in sparking creativity.
Help your team members create a manageable list of tasks for the week and set reasonable goals and deadlines
For someone feeling particularly stuck, check in with them daily, ask how you can help, and be sure to listen
Resources for self-education and self-reflection
Lastly, I wanted to leave you with a short-list of resources that can get your started on your self-awareness and self-education journey. We are all learning, myself included! Here are some resources that I and close peers have found to be particularly insightful.
The History of Slavery in America: The NY Times 1619 Project, including the 1619 podcast series by Nicole Hannah-Jones
The History of the US Prison-Industrial Complex: 13th Documentary by Ava Duvernay on Netflix or Youtube
Connecting the Civil Rights Movement to the Black Lives Matter Movement: I am Not Your Negro by Raoul Peck
Understanding the US Bail System: The Kalif Browder Documentary by Jay-Z
Understanding the unfair American Justice System: When They See Us series by Ava Duvernay on Netflix
Context of Recent Police Brutality in America: LA92 on Netflix
Defining White Privilege: White Fragility by Robin DiAngelo
Self-Reflection Guide of White Supremacy: Me and White Supremacy Workbook by Layla Saad
The Founding of the Black Lives Matter Movement: When they Call you a Terrorist by Patrice Cullers